I am looking at my absentee ballot with indecision and not a small amount of nausea. I am one of the very few undecideds at this late point. I guess it’s because I don’t see a clear path to unity with either of these candidates. I don’t see a good or peaceful outcome no matter which way this goes. It is no longer about trying to figure out who the “better” candidate is, for me. I don’t have a lot of faith that either can unify us. It’s not even about picking the “better” party, which is usually a good voting strategy.
It’s about who can stop the hate and the violence, the social unrest and the out of control news media, and the social media….. all spewing anger and negativity. It’s about who can stop the hate from the politicians, the pundits, the media, the populace.
Ben Franklin said…This Republic is yours if you can keep it. And sadly, I’m not sure either of these candidate can help us do that.
Because it is not either of their fault, it is not in their control to fix.
Let’s Do Our Part
It is ours to fix. Our decision to embrace civility and respect for each other. Our decision to listen, to love, to hear one another. To not always be on the attack. And not always be on the defense, either. Sometimes, we just have to be okay with disagreeing. It is not the end of the world. But for many, it is the end of a friendship or familial relationship.
It’s our decision not to take as fact every word the media spits out with their bottom line always the impetus.
We listen to the crazy or unsubstantiated things said on TV or the internet or wherever we get our ‘news’ and we think these things are true, never considering the motivation for saying them. It’s easy to forget that each media outlet is a business, and so the primary motivation is always going to be the bottom line.
And conflict sells.
Let’s face it, it’s fun to watch people you agree with talk about current events and politics and root for the side you are on. It’s actually more like entertainment, though, not true, factual, unslanted news. We get our daily doses of this ‘infotainment’ in all its forms…newspapers, websites, TV news, podcasts, Youtube, Facebook, Twitter and all the rest, then we walk around all day with our heads filled with combative words and unsettling thoughts and we wonder why we feel agitated, hopeless, depressed.
This is the first time I was actually considering not voting. It seems so pointless, when we know there will be an uproar no matter what the results are. I don’t want to be a part of all the ugliness. I can’t imagine things getting better. No matter who wins.
Our Civic and Spiritual Duty
But, my conscience insists I must vote. Hold my nose and vote for one of two extremely flawed candidates? Vote 3rd party? Write in? I’ll do one of the above, I guess. But it will not be a vote of confidence. I heard one man say “I’m not a Republican or a Democrat I’m a Christ-ocrat. He is the one in charge.” I love that! Sure wish He was on the ballot. I think hearing that gives me some direction, though. It occurred to me recently, that just like everything else we do, we can vote prayerfully. We can consult God and our conscience, which is informed by the Holy Spirit if you are a Christian.
My husband also pointed out, if you are a Christian, then you don’t need to worry. We will be okay either way if our trust is in Him.
This is a comfort for sure. We are in the throes of yet another election year, and it’s easy to get caught up in all the nuttiness. But it is a little like playing a game of chess with a chess master. You can make all these clever little moves, pawn here, rook there, protect your queen….but, ultimately, the master is probably going to win. He can counteract any move you make because he is trained to think 4,5 or 6 moves ahead.
Not unlike God with our world. He is already on the other side of this election. He is working hundreds of moves ahead of us. He is ultimately, like the chess master, in control of the game. We definitely need to play our part, make wise decisions, tend to our civic responsibilities and follow God’s lead.
It’s All About Perspective
We can make things much easier on ourselves if we listen and obey Him. And we are definitely responsible for doing the right thing. Which in this case is…voting. Prayerfully, considering all factors; intelligently…making an informed, not an emotional decision. If you are a Christian and still undecided, put it before God. This is what I plan to do.
Respect the process, respect the results, respect the office of the presidency, no matter who gets in.
And honestly…zoom out. If you look at the big picture, the Really Big Picture, this election is very small potatoes. On a grand and eternal perspective. For the time that you have left on this earth, which is no more than about 50-60 years for anyone reading this, this election is a blip on the radar, and we really need to be focusing on bigger and more important things.
Like what? Like honoring God’s greatest commandments; Love God and love one another… by treating each other well, helping those in need, using our strengths and talents to make the world a better place for someone else. For more thoughts on this click here Out of the Shallows – Love One Another and here What’s Your Covid-19 Story.
Christian, Are You Up For the Challenge?
So, what happens November 4th? Well, it’s up to us.
Three suggestions from the pages of Scripture:
1) As Christians we are called to not worry about anything, but to pray about everything (Philippians 4:6).
2) We are called to make every effort to live in peace with others ( Romans 12:18).
3) We are called to listen more than we talk, and to be slow to anger (James 1:19).
We have our work cut out for us, to be sure. But think of the benefits to society if every follower of Jesus tried to do these three things. A worthy goal.
If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.
-Paul, in Romans 12:18
Wow! Spot on Sherry!
Thanks Jenn! I’m glad this resonated with you. Your encouragement means so much!
Hi Sherry. First, thank you for being brave enough to post an article about the election. It’s such a sensitive subject I was hesitant to even post a reply. And if I’m honest, as a flawed, selfish human, my first reaction was to immediately respond with all the reasons you should vote the way I think you should vote. As someone who feels very strongly about who the right candidate is, it’s exciting to know there are still undecideds out there because those are the people who are really going to determine this race. No pressure! 🙂 I just wanted to point out a couple things especially after reading a couple of your older posts from the last election season.
1st – you are spot on about praying and remembering that God is in control.
2nd – because the candidates are so polarizing and the popular votes are so close now days, it’s more important than ever to vote.
3rd – you mentioned in a previous post and this post that both candidates are flawed. I think it’s important to remember that will always be the case. As Christians we know that we’re all sinners so it’s hard not to focus on the fallen nature of others. Especially when the media makes it hard to see anything else.
4th – also in the previous post you talked about your respect for the constitution and how you believe it’s devinely inspired. I think this might be the key to helping you vote. Without trying to impose my opinion on you, I believe there is one candidate who believes that the constitution is good and needs to be upheld and the other candidate believes it’s inherently flawed and needs to be picked apart. One candidate talks about how our country is (basically) good and just needs some tweaks while the other candidate talks about our country as if we’re all bad and there is no saving us without going in an extreme opposite direction.
God made us good. He declared us good in Genesis. We fell, but we are now covered by the blood of Christ so God still sees us as good. It doesn’t mean we aren’t sinners and don’t need to continually work on ourselves by submitting to the Holy Spirit, but I don’t believe in supporting someone who focuses on our perceived “badness” because those are the lies that Satan whispers to us.
I hope this helps you or is at least an interesting read for you and others. 🙂
Sincerely,
Miranda
Miranda, thank you for your comments. It is nice to hear a thoughtful opinion expressed well. I welcome and encourage all respectful discussions!
And yes, I did hesitate to write about the election, and had to ask God for the courage. And I’m glad I did.🙂